LETTER LXXXVIII. Mrs. B to Lady Davers. MY DEAR LADY DAVERS,-I have three marriages to acquaint you with in one letter. In the first place, Sir W. G—— has sent, by the particular desire of my dear friend, that he was made one of the happiest men in England on the 18th past; and so I have no longer my Miss Darnford to boast of. I have a very good opinion of the gentleman; but if he be but half so good a husband, as she will make a wife, they will be exceedingly happy in one another. Mr. Williams's marriage to a kinswoman of his noble patron (as you have heard was in treaty), is the next; and there is great reason to believe, from the character of both, that they will likewise do credit to the state. The third is Mr. Adams and Polly Barlow; and I wish them, for both their sakes, as happy as either of the former. They are set out to his living, highly pleased with one another; and I hope will have reason to continue so to be. As to the first, I did not indeed think the affair would have been so soon concluded; and miss kept it off so long, as I understand, that her papa was angry with her. And indeed, as the gentleman's family, circumstances, and character, were such that there could lie no objection against him, I think it would have been wrong to have delayed it. I should have written to your ladyship before; but have been favoured with Mr. B's company into Kent, on a visit to my good mother, who was indisposed. We tarried there a week, and left both my dear parents, to my thankful satisfaction, in as good health as ever they were in their lives. Mrs. Judy Swynford, or Miss Swynford (as she refuses not being called, now and then), has been with us for this week past; and she expects her brother, Sir Jacob, to fetch her away about a week hence. It does not become me to write the least word that may appear disrespectful of any person who has the honour to bear a relation to your ladyship and Mr. B―; otherwise I should say that the B-s and the S-s are directly the opposites of one another. But yet, as (she says) she never saw your ladyship but once, you will forgive me to mention a word or two about this lady, because she is a character that is in a manner new to me. She is a maiden lady, as you know, madam; and though she will not part with the green leaf from her hand, one sees by the grey-goose down on her brows and her head, that she cannot be less than fifty-five. But so much pains does she take, by powder, to have never a dark hair in her head, because she has one half of them white, that I am sorry to see, what is a subject for reverence, should be deemed by the good lady matter of concealment. She is often in conversation, indeed, seemingly reproaching herself that she is an old maid, and an old woman; but it is very discernible that she expects a compliment, that she is not so, every time she is so free with herself: and if nobody makes her one, she will say something of that sort in her own behalf. She takes particular care that of all the public transactions which happen to be talked of, her memory will never carry her back above thirty years; and then it is, About thirty years ago, when I was a girl, or, when I was in hanging-sleeves; and so she makes herself, for twenty years of her life, a very useless and insignificant person. If her teeth, which, for her time of life, are very good, though not over white (and which, by the care she takes of them, she seems to look upon as the last remains of her better days), would but fail her, I imagine it would help her to a conviction that would set her ten years forwarder at least. But, poor lady! she is so young, in spite of her wrinkles, that I am really concerned for her affectation; because it exposes her to the remarks and ridicule of the gentlemen, and gives one pain for her. Surely these ladies don't act prudently at all; since, for every year Mrs. Judy would take from her age, her censurers add two to it; and behind her back make her going on towards seventy; whereas, if she would lay claim to her reverentials, as I may say, and not endeavour to conceal her age, she would have a great many compliments for looking so well at her time of life. And many a young body would hope to be the better for her advice and experience, who now are afraid of affronting her, if they suppose she has lived much longer in the world than themselves. Then she laughs back to the years she owns, when more flippant ladies, at the laughing-time of life, delight to be frolic. She tries to sing too, although, if ever she had a voice, she has outlived it; and her songs are of so antique a date, that they would betray her; only, as she tells us, they were taught her by her grandmother, who was a fine lady at the Restoration. She will join in a dance; and though her limbs move not so pliantly, as might be expected of a lady no older than she would be thought to be, and whose dancing-days are not entirely over, yet that was owing to a fall from her horse some years ago, which, she doubts, she shall never recover, so as to be quite well; though she finds she grows better and better every year. Thus she loses the respect, the reverence, she might receive, were it not for this miserable affectation; takes pains, by aping youth, to make herself unworthy of her years, and is content to be thought less discreet than she might otherwise be deemed, for fear she should be imagined older, if she appeared wiser. What a sad thing is this, madam-What a mistaken conduct! We pray to live to old age; and it is promised as a blessing, and as a reward, for the performance of certain duties; and yet, when we come to it, we had rather be thought as foolish as youth, than to be deemed wise, and in possession of it. And so we show how little we deserve what we have been so long coveting; and yet covet on: For what? Why, to be more and more ashamed, and more and more unworthy of what we covet! How fantastic a character is this!-Well may irreverent, unthinking youth despise, instead of revering the hoary head, which the wearer is so much ashamed of. Will you forgive me, madam? The lady boasts a relationship to you and to Mr. B; and I think I am very bold. But my reverence for years, and the disgust I have to see anybody behave unworthy of them, makes me take the greater liberty: which, however, I shall wish I had not taken, if it meets not with that allowance which I have always had from your ladyship in what I write. God knows whether ever I may enjoy the blessing I so much revere in others. For now my heavy time approaches. But I was so apprehensive before, and so troublesome to my best friends, with my vapourish fears, that now (with a perfect resignation to the Divine Will) I will only add, that I am Your ladyship's My dear Billy and Miss Goodwin improve both of them every day, and are all I can desire or expect them to be. Could miss's poor mamma be here with a wish, and back again, how much would she be delighted with one of our afternoon conferences; our Sunday employments, especially !—And let me tell your ladyship, that I am very happy in another young gentleman of the dean's recommending, instead of Mr. Adams. LETTER LXXXIX. Mrs. B to Lady Davers. MY DEAREST LADY,-I am once more, blessed be God for all His mercies to me! enabled to dedicate to you the first fruits of my penmanship, on my upsitting, to thank you, and my noble lord, for all your kind solicitudes for my welfare. Billy every day improves, miss is all I wish her to be, and my second dear boy continues to be as lovely and as fine a baby as your ladyship was pleased to think him; and their papa, the best of husbands! I am glad to hear Lady Betty is likely to be so happy. Mr. B―― says, her noble admirer is as worthy a gentleman as any in the peerage; and I beg of your ladyship to congratulate the dear lady, and her noble parents, in my name, if I should be at a distance when the nuptials are celebrated. I have had the honour of a visit from my lady, the countess dowager, on occasion of her leaving the kingdom for a year or two, for which space she designs to reside in Italy; principally at Naples or Florence; a design she took up, some time ago, as I believe I mentioned to your ladyship; but which it seems she could not conveniently put into execution till now. Mr. B― was abroad when her ladyship came, having taken a turn to Gloucester the day before, and I expected him not till the next day. Her ladyship sent her gentleman the preceding evening, to let me know that business had brought her as far as Wooburn; and if it would not be unacceptable, she would pay her respects to me, at breakfast, the next morning, being speedily to leave England. I returned, that I should be very proud of that honour. And about ten her ladyship came. She was exceedingly fond of my two boys, the little man, and the pretty baby, as she called them; and I had evry |